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Priorities / Monday, December 18, 2006 @ 11:25 AM
Priorities

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It is almost unbelievable how I can still manage to write in here despite being extremely occupied. I do not like to say I am busy because I get the impression that people who keep saying they are busy simply do not know how to organize their time. Successful people always make time.

I think the main concern here is what you prioritize what goes on in your life. People often do not realize how all their time passes through them so quickly. It is true that not everyone come from a favorable background for success because God did not create everyone equal in this. However, being fair, he gave the same 24 hours to everyone on this Earth. It is Gods way of telling us that because of this, we ARE equal.

I just finished watching the Apprentice and Donald Trump mentioned about having priorities as well. I totally agree when he mentioned that it is not impossible to have a successful family and business life. We just have to smart in organizing our time.

So that is why there exist people who are successful, people who failed and people who are simply nobody. They are what they do with their time. I do not even know how I can justify the importance of using your time wisely. The only reason that I may seem to be able to do a lot of things, and know so many people is because I have invested my time into doing something worthwhile. And like the ripple effect, it goes on and on and sometimes unexpected surprises come along and I benefit from it. It is NOT that I am lucky as I do not believe that there is such thing as luck.

I was trained to maximize the little time that I had to do a little everyday. To do that, the alignment of priorities must be right so it must be in this order:

1. God
2. Family
3. Job
4. Business

That is why you will discover that most people who are truly rich and happy will be from the group of people who have the same alignment as above. If altered any other way, even if you are the richest person in the world, you will not be leading a fulfilling life.

This was such a great advice and because of this, I am always clear on what to prioritize on. It can be a tough choice sometimes but most of the time, I trust myself enough to proceed with my choice. You can too.

I was talking to a friend yesterday and she mentioned that she reads my blog everyday. Wow. Thank you, I am so flattered. In fact, weirdly, I realize that this is not the first time someone said that to me. I remember talking to another friend and she mentioned something that I do not remember revealing to her. After I asked how did she knew about that certain fact, she mentioned that she reads my blog almost everyday. Honestly, I am surprise that anyone would be willing to read what I have written down considering that I have been slammed as boring and having terrible English:p

Dont get me wrong, any writers biggest dream is to have readers so I am not complaining. However, looking my blog stats compared to the number of comments here, I have come to a conclusion that my readers generally consist of people who are shy. They either:

1. Are too shy to comment because they do not want anyone to know that they visited this boring blog.
2. Want to save me from the embarrassment of my atrocious English compared to what they are going to write.
3. Just do not know what to say as they are so amazed that the writer (me!) is so unbelievably weird.


So which category do you fall in? Since you are all shy, I shall allow you to reply as anonymous ok! :)
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